I do apologize. That is, however, the nature of a fetish - hm? It's a 'sexual deviancy' per say. It is not normal, and it goes against many norms. What about breathplay? That one is fairly common. Water peril, after all, is just an off-shoot of that. Maybe a bondage fetish. Do people who find themselves with such a fetish enjoy seeing actual people kidnapped, restrained against their will and possibly harmed? For most, the answer is probably no. It's a fetish - a fantasy.
I do apologize that this type of fetish disturbs you but, really, it is no different than any other.